back again..!
hey heyy.. havent blogging for a looong time.. quite busy bcoz of the exams that really were crackin my head.. well, the first exam went bad, i just screwed up with the answers.. but i made better improvement on the second one.. alhamdulillah.. it's one of my bad habit, most of the times, i will fall first, then only i learn from my mistake and get up and make improvement. i knew it!! but still i do it again and again!! but.. here i am now.. go back to my normal life.. no books, no coffees, no reading books while eating.. but it's just for this weekend since i'll have new lectures next week.. pathetic isnt it?
anyway.. i cant write all the activities i had for the last 2 weeks but i have many great things and ideas popped in my mind to be written here though.. but i have forgotten some of them.. so let the time recall them again kay.. i'm pretty sure that i'll remember them again and just spill out all of them here..
and the most recent one was today, i finally went to the so called mosque and islamic center in Lund. it's just like an apartment, where there's a little office, a hall for praying for man. but for women , it's only a smaller room, but it's quite ok.. n there is a kitchen, ablution area and living room for those who want to have meeting or stuffs. and it's the first time *other than during the Eid* that i heard azan not from my laptop!!! there's no loud speaker though, only a small speaker to each room.. but i really am happy.. it's a real azan.. alhamdulillah.. i really thank Allah for still be able hearing azan here..
well.. i went to the mosque with my friends, all girls.. all are from the moslem society in Lunds universitet. some of them did the friday pray, n then we had discussion on what activities we'll be having for this society and how we will establish this society. bcoz this society really is small and soOo brand new. and all the members are girl. no no.. no discrimination.. it was bcoz during the first meeting, only the girls came n we discussed many things n we have decided to have girls society first, then after this society is strong enough, then we'll be inviting guys to join this society..
i kinda like this society.. bcoz it's so hard to find people that have not only same religion, but also same point of view here.. i mean.. i have to be careful when talkin with my friends bcoz some of them are just free thinker, so i cant talk much bout religion.. and with this society, we can share everything like what to answer when ppl asking or giving opinion bout our hijab, bout the pray that we perform, bout finding halal food and even when we had lunch together in burger king, we miss having chicken burger or double whooper in burger king at our home country.. here we can only have the fish burger which is, Thank God, the cheapest one..
and we share how is the cultures of relationship between boys and girls in our own countries, which is quite the same for them but obviously not for me! and they were shocked when i said it's normal to have boyfriend or girlfriend in my countries, which is something i expect.. but then i hv to explain to them how is the relationships between boy n girls in my countries.. it's not too liberal like in any other countries but i hv to admit that from time to time it's getting more "westernized" in my countries.. and we talked on how's the process of ta'aruf usually being done, choosing the Mr.Right and all the process to marriage.. which i dont know why, but always being the hot topic to be discussed recently.. i guess it's just my time now that ppl all around me are getting married, having engaged or choosing the mr.right.. ok, stop there.. i have to stop talkin bout marriage otherwise i'll write all my theories bout realtionships or marriage while i actually am having problems as many of my friends do have one too... and i could spend hours talkin bout it..so.. stop there!
well..again.. i'm talkin out of the track.. haha.. it's been looong time not talkin something like this in my own blog.. kinda miss it.. but need to sleep now.. the bad is calling me again n again.. :D ciao!
posted by juventini_belladonna @ 9:52 PM
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